I can’t believe it’s already been 5 years. It some ways, it seems like we’ve been married for 20 years, and in some ways it feels like our wedding was a few months ago. We went to Sedona for our …
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Who doesn’t love songs that talk about falling in love?! Single moms who are alone and struggling to do it all 24/7—it seems impossible to find time to take a shower, much less fall in love. I know. I’ve been …
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I didn’t tell very many dating disaster stories in my book, for many reasons. One, the book would have been 4,000 pages long. Second, they are embarrassing and I feel like an idiot. Third, I didn’t want to disrespect my …
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I met my first boyfriend in 1985 in San Antonio Texas. I was ten years old. Neil Peltier was the cutest blonde kid you’ve ever seen. He would ride his bike, pass the community pool, to my house so we …
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This reminds me so much of my single days. I’d blast this song while I was cleaning and when it got to the part where she says: The time is right now You got to decide Stand in the back …
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“You’ve got to believe in love” I didn’t. For years. I held so tight to my beliefs that became my identity: busy overwhelmed single mom running ragged that no one would want to marry because I had two kids and …
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“I don’t need a man.” How many times have you heard this? How many times have you said this?? I’ve said it a thousand times. I’ve said “I don’t want a man” too. That was a lie. I knew it. …
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” Awake My Soul ” by Mumford and Sons reminds me of Tony Robbins’ Unleash the Power Within event we went to last year with our kids. It was a great experience that truly changed my life. I was so …
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You know, I believe it’s possible to have the relationship you’ve always wanted. I believe it because I experienced it, but for years I sure didn’t. But even when I doubted, I’d always have this daydream that I would meet …
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What you focus on becomes what you find. I’m one of those huge choir nerds. Choir co-president my senior year of high school…always sang the school fight song at ceremonies, and I even sang in the vocal jazz group. Oh yes. …
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