Gone, Gone, Gone by Phillip Phillips – My Love Playlist

I remember when I was single and in my therapist’s office, her husband came in and started doing some work around the office. I asked him, “Are you working on your honey-do list?” and he replied, “No, she doesn’t even know I’m here.”

What?

So you mean to tell me that there are husbands out there who come to their wives’ offices, unannounced, to take care of stuff without being asked?

Yes ma’am.

Your past relationships do not determine your future relationships. Just because you haven’t experienced the relationship that you want doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. It doesn’t mean that it’s unavailable to you. It’s available to all of us if you can transform your internal dialogue. Transform the beliefs you have which are merely thoughts you’ve repeated over and over again. Just because you have a thought doesn’t make it true. You used to believe in Santa Claus, you used to believe that a fairy came and left a dollar under your bed when you lost your tooth, right? I thought my 3rd grade teacher lived at the school. I had no idea she had a husband and children! Beliefs change over time. I had never been in a relationship where my man came and did something around the house or office just because it needed to be done, and not because he had been asked to help. But seeing other relationships helped me create the vision for my future. Now I have a husband who does hundreds of things for me.

Manifesting the relationship you desire is not just figuring out what your husband is going to do for YOU. Create the vision of what you do for him. What you do together, what dreams you will both be chasing, what life will you build. Live in the future imagination of the relationship you are actively creating TODAY with every action.

If you want a husband who is helpful and generous and kind, go help someone. Go give someone your precious time. Show kindness. Put on My Love Playlist as the movie soundtrack for the movie of YOUR life you are creating NOW. Current circumstances and past circumstances need not apply for the roles in your movie you are creating. Unless YOU want to include them. You’ve already achieved some of your dreams, so imagine sharing them with your love.

He will celebrate your wins even harder than he celebrates his own.

That’s why I love this song so much. Real men honor and cherish their wives. Real men will do anything for their wives. Real men want commitment, not games. When a man shows you who they are, believe them. Their actions. Not their words. I have fallen for that too may times to count.

When a man says one thing and does another, you have two choices:

1. Strengthen your belief that men are liars and their actions don’t match their words.

2. Learn the lesson, be grateful for that person for helping you learn this lesson (after you fire them immediately, duh.) and work on yourself. Practice displaying integrity in everything you do. When you say something, do it. Tell the truth. Keep your commitments.

Door #2 is what will make you a magnet for men with integrity and loyalty and honesty.

That’s how you attract one.

And, work on disproving your limiting beliefs about men. I struggled so much with this, then I created a strategy that works, so I had to write a book and share it with anyone struggling with the same things. If you haven’t had a relationship with integrity and honesty, find real life manifestations of them. They are everywhere. If you only look for broken relationships and broken men, ye shall find them. Look for the opposite. The love playlist is a tool to help you shake off a rough morning, a “bad “date, a challenging moment. We all have them, and we will continue to have them. But what I did for years kept me from attracting what I wanted.

When I had a bad date or a bad morning, I would fall into the trap of believing that my dreams were never going to happen. I would convince myself that being single is fine, or maybe I wasn’t destined to be with someone because of my personality. Then I realized that belief itself was the problem. Not my “personality.” We create our personality out of what we have gone through, what we learned from those experiences, and then who we want to become. Every experience you have gone through has given you the strength and tools you needed to create your future life. You can create the life you want because of the person you became living through those experiences. So every experience is a gift, even if it is lying POS boyfriend. Still a gift.

All the boys who lied to you gave you an education, not a life sentence. That is true of all of us!

Listen to Phillip Phillips and believe him!

When life leaves you high and dry
I’ll be at your door tonight
If you need help, if you need help

I’ll shut down the city lights
I’ll lie, cheat, I’ll beg and bribe
To make you well, to make you well

When enemies are at your door
I’ll carry you away from war
If you need help, if you need help

Your hope dangling by a string
I’ll share in your suffering
To make you well, to make you well

Give me reasons to believe
That you would do the same for me

And I would do it for you, for you
Baby, I’m not moving on
I’ll love you long after you’re gone
For you, for you
You will never sleep alone
I’ll love you long after you’re gone
And long after you’re gone, gone, gone

When you fall like a statue
I’m gon’ be there to catch you
Put you on your feet, you on your feet

And if your well is empty
Not a thing will prevent me
Tell me what you need
What do you need?

I surrender honestly
You’ve always done the same for me

So, I would do it for you, for you
Baby, I’m not movin’ on
I’ll love you long after you’re gone
For you, for you
You will never sleep alone
I’ll love you long after you’re gone
And long after you’re gone, gone, gone

You’re my backbone
You’re my cornerstone
You’re my crutch when my legs stop moving
You’re my head start
You’re my rugged heart
You’re the pulse that I’ve always needed

Like a drum, baby, don’t stop beating
Like a drum, baby, don’t stop beating
Like a drum, baby, don’t stop beating
Like a drum, my heart never stops beating

For you, for you
Baby, I’m not moving on
I’ll love you long after you’re gone
For you, for you
You will never sleep alone
I’ll love you long after you’re gone

For you, for you
Baby, I’m not movin’ on
I’ll love you long after you’re gone
For you, for you
You will never sleep alone
I’ll love you long, long after you’re gone

Like a drum, baby, don’t stop beating
Like a drum, baby, don’t stop beating
Like a drum, baby, don’t stop beating
Like a drum, my heart never stops beating for you

And long after you’re gone, gone, gone
I’ll love you long after you’re gone, gone, gone

So what are you creating today, friends? If it’s a husband who will “love you long after you’re gone”, then you’re in the right place! Thanks for being here! And if you have any great songs to add to My Love Playlist, please send them to me! Reach me on Instagram, Facebook, or just sign up for my newsletter below and email me!

Sending you lots of love,

XOXOXOXO

Karen

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