
I didn’t believe an amazing relationship was possible for me. I didn’t even think “amazing” and “man” could be in the same sentence. For. Years. The thoughts that I allowed to repeat in my head (beliefs) were that I was broken, too loud, too “much”, too damaged, too…everything. I hate men, marriage sucks, men suck, I’d rather be alone, yada yada blah blah on and on and on. Any of those sound familiar? But I knew we have to cultivate the belief that our dreams ARE possible in order to create the life we want. So, I created tools to help me do that. One tool is music. I mean, someone wrote this song about another person. “If I die in your arms it’s right where I’m supposed to be?” Who doesn’t want a relationship like that? Hell yeah I want to feel that way about someone. If it’s possible for this amazing lyricist, then it’s possible for all of us. Use tools to help you create new beliefs. So the new thoughts that repeat are: It is possible to create the life and the relationship I want, I do deserve it, and there is a person out there who is perfect for me who is looking for someone just like me. Listen to my love playlist on Spotify and drown out the doubt and the negative beliefs you have about relationships. Those beliefs were created from the PAST, and your past relationship does not determine your future relationship. You create your future relationships. Your vision for your dream relationship exists because it was meant to be for you. And it is unique to you and the person meant for you will have the same vision! Try repeating that thought every time your brain wants to press play on an old belief! What you dream about is what is meant to be for you.

But I’ve seen perfection under your clothes
Yeah, we fell in love and we built a home
Though we may never see the streets of Rome
‘Cause the unknown is on its way
It’s right where I’m supposed to be
You know I’m not afraid
As long as you’re next to me
So tell me, will you hold me
When the curtains close
If I died in your arms
It’s right where I’m supposed to be
But I’ve seen the stars flicker in your eyes
‘Cause the unknown is on its way
It’s right where I’m supposed to be
You know I’m not afraid
As long as you’re next to me
So tell me, will you hold me
When the curtains close

It’s right where I’m supposed to be
(It’s okay)
(It’s okay)
It’s right where I’m supposed to be
(It’s okay)
(It’s okay)
We, we never leave
But it feels like we’ve seen the whole world
A thousand cheers when the tears on your parents’ roof
Forget my fears every time that I’m under you
All along, all I needed was you
So I swear, I’m not scared when it’s over
It’s right where I’m supposed to be
You know I’m not afraidAs long as you’re next to me (so tell me)
So tell me, will you hold me
When the curtains close
If I died in your arms
It’s right where I’m supposed to be (if I died)
